How
to survive when faced with your greatest fear
How
do you go about surviving when faced with big problems, great uncertainty, and
the greatest fear you have ever face?
Here
are 7 things you can do to survive and thrive under such predicament:
1.
Understand fear. Fear
is built into each of us as a defense mechanism. The only way to kill fear is
to take action. The longer we wait to take action the bigger our imaginary
fears. We all encounter big problems laden with ability to unload fear in us.
We have to fight fear to live a great life. There is no other way. Never listen
to your fears, listen to your faith.
2. Learn to
reframe. Most of
what we fear never becomes reality. See the hidden opportunity. Never let fears
to add up to a point you become paralyzed. Nothing worthy is ever easy. Have the guts to
accept reality and move on taking full responsibility for your life.
3. Have faith. We don’t lack ability, we lack faith. It is in our
faith we find the courage to face our greatest fears. We seldom have all that
we need to realize the greatest opportunities in life. We must learn as we go,
slaying a fear at a time, by taking action as each step of the way is revealed
to us.
4. Learn to
live with uncertainty. Face each
day with the expectancy that problems are certain to come and be ready to meet
resistance. Opposition, enemies, failures, and frustrations are all part of the
game of life. Face them squarely in the face, be a fast learner and doer, and
your success is waiting for you on the other side of all these obstacles.
5. Played safe
will get you killed. What was
safe in the past is the risky today. Standing still or moving slowly will get
you killed. Playing safe serves on one. Explore, discover, innovate, dream, and
be the one others wish to be. Become that brave soul living for excellence.
Never blame your circumstances, in them you will find the blessings needed to
achieve greatness.
6. Don’t worry
about looking foolish. Remember
others will not know what you are chasing. Your obstacles are invisible to
them. Imagine a dog chasing an invisible rabbit. Only you know what you are
chasing. The crazy impossible things will keep you going long after others have
given up.
7. Unleash the
power within you. All you
need to succeed is already inside you. Tap into the power dormant inside you.
Momentum will carry you through whatever challenges lay ahead of you. Fear
living a life of regrets, a life that surrendered to your fears. What have you
been called to chase? Think, if it is up to be it is up to me. Have real
dreams, face and endure uncertainty and struggle, and go claim your victory!
You are worthy!
Thank
you for reading and reflecting on today’s nuggets. Share them with others.
We make a living by what we get;
we make a life by what we give. Be a giver in a world of takers.
Be blessed and be a
blessing to others.
Carlos Fontana, President of Phalanx
Co-author of the book Follow to Lead (The 7 Principles to Being
a Great Follower)
Author of the book PRICELESS (Sixty-Six Simple
Stories of Reflection, Love, and Legacy