We are a product of our associations, our community. We are
declining in our ability to build community therefore declining as a nation. Isolation
and divisiveness replaced unity in community. The technological noise, from all the means to
communicate, has actually made us more isolated. We have to go back to before
the agricultural age in order to find a lower level of connectedness than what
exists today.
Why do communities come together? The need for communication brings
people together. The need for community will always be present no matter how
advanced our society becomes.
Conversation is the key to communication and thus
the building of healthy communities. The sad thing is that even with all the modes of
communication accessible today, we are more isolated than ever and not living
in community. As people, we are not to live in isolation.
Information exchange
is the reason for communication and the basis of community. Today’s world is
failing to teach the young the basic skills of communication. In a real community, people
work together for the common unity and people realize the power of a united
community.
Here are a few thoughts about the value of community:
1.
Ability to
communicate in a community ought to be an important part of any education.
2.
The problems of the
world could be prevented or resolved if we just took the time to communicate in our communities.
3.
The TV and the
Computer brought isolation (empowered individuals and weakened our communities)
to people breaking up our communities.
4.
We can only connect
when we slow down and have conversations. We are emotional beings therefore the
majority of communication takes places in a non-verbal way.
5.
It all started when
career focused vocational training replaced the classical liberal arts
education over 100 years ago. About that time we started to lose our ability to
connect and communicate.
6.
If we don’t connect
with each other, we cannot trust each other. In order for trust to occur we
need to be able to communicate, to be believable, to create connections, and to
be dependable and that is where the power of community comes from. In a true
community there is loyalty and the loyalty comes from the culture created by
community leaders.
7.
A culture that loses
its roots becomes rootless and spreads rootlessness. Apathy then takes over the
land. Does that bother you? It bothers me!!!
The art of conversation, from association, is the root of community.
We must improve
our ability to improve ourselves so we can create healthy communities if we are to
remain free as a society.
Be blessed and be a blessing to others!
Carlos Fontana, President of Phalanx
Co-author of the book Follow to Lead (The 7 Principles to Being
a Great Follower)
Author of the book PRICELESS (Sixty-Six Simple Stories of
Reflection, Love, and Legacy)
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