Thursday, October 11, 2012

HOW BIG ARE YOUR QUESTIONS?


A Few Things to Think About!


The quality of our lives is impacted more by the quality of our questions than the quality of our answers. The quality of our thinking is directly proportional to the quality of our questions. Great questions lead to a great life. Be not afraid to ask profound questions for there we will find the secret of living a significant life.

1) Have we thought that it is not in our similarities but in our differences that life becomes interesting?

2) How about preaching what we practice and practice what we preach?

3) How about letting go of the past and the future if we want to live the present?

4) Why are we so lazy, so concerned about what others think, and so afraid of change knowing that is precisely what we need to overcome to realize our tremendous potentials?

5) Why do we punish ourselves so much when making mistakes knowing very well that without mistakes we don’t learn anything new?

6) Why do we get so discouraged when we meet resistance and rejection if we know that without them we can not achieve anything worthy in life?

7) Have you thought about the usefulness and the roles of detractors, pessimists and critics? Would we have enough courage without them?

Be blessed and be a blessing to others
Carlos Fontana, President of Phalanx
Co-author of the book Follow to Lead (The 7 Principles to Being a Great Follower)
Author of the book PRICELESS (Sixty-Six Simple Stories of Reflection, Love, and Legacy)

Wednesday, October 10, 2012

Are You Playing to be a Champion?


The Will to Be a Champion

Whatever your endeavor in life, make it a game. Make sure you choose the right game to play. Learn the rules, play your heart out, and keep your eyes on the scoreboard. Give your all and you will never regret it. Here are 7 important steps if you want to win in your game of life. Take them to heart, follow them, and you will become and champion in your chosen field.

1) Define and picture your victory. Play the movie in your mind before making the movie. Make you have a clear picture of what your victory looks like. Program your subconscious mind to vividly taste the victory.

2) Commit to your victory. No one else ought to be more committed to your game then you. This is your game, your life. Give your all, full commitment. Involvement and interest does not cut it. It is all or nothing.

3) Deliberately practice. Master the fun-da-mentals! Learn from previous champions. How many shots does it take to become a champion? Imagine how many shots Michael Jordan,Tiger Woods and Pele have taken before becoming champions of their game? Champions take as many shots as necessary to win.

4) Get a coach. If Michael Jordan and Tiger Woods have coaches, what make us think we don’t need one? No matter how good we are, there are many opportunities to improve and get better. Coaches have a vested interest in our victory because it is their victory as well. You have heard the saying that “feedback is the breakfast of champions.” True champions ask the question, how can I get better coach?

5) Persist. Have the “I will until” attitude to get up after every fall. What separates the average player from champions is how fast they get up from their fall. Nothing takes place of persistence. Persistence is more powerful than knowledge and education. The will to win is what makes champions champions.

6) Love the game. Savor every play. Have fun while making the movie to your victory lane.

7) Elevate the game. Champions shine under pressure. Champion make the game fun and look easy for those watching. Truth is that champions are made outside the court. Champions are made in the battle field while practicing the scrip before the game day.

Be blessed and be a blessing to others
Carlos Fontana, President of Phalanx
Co-author of the book Follow to Lead (The 7 Principles to Being a Great Follower)
Author of the book PRICELESS (Sixty-Six Simple Stories of Reflection, Love, and Legacy)

Tuesday, October 9, 2012

How Do Empires Fall?


History Matters!

If we don’t learn from history we are doomed to repeat it! 
According to historians here are a few of the reasons why the Roman Empire fell. Are we headed for a similar fall? Can you see the following signs?

1) Decline in morals, abandonment of virtues, promiscuity, decline of ethics and values, and lower quality education and the arts.

2) Political corruption and antagonism between the senate and the Emperor.

3) Decline in patriotism and citizens losing interest in government as it became distant to them.

4) Failing economy, large trade deficits, high cost of government, small businesses failures, dependence on foreign goods, high unemployment of the working class, and heavy military spending.

5) Lower birth rates (in part due to infertility).

6) Widespread gambling and entertainment (gladiators).

7) Liberal thinking led to overspending by giving to the poor and class warfare between the rich and the poor.

Are we going to be the generations that watched the fall? Right under our watch? 

Be blessed and be a blessing to others
Carlos Fontana, President of Phalanx
Co-author of the book Follow to Lead (The 7 Principles to Being a Great Follower)
Author of the book PRICELESS (Sixty-Six Simple Stories of Reflection, Love, and Legacy)

Monday, October 8, 2012

Chaotic or Rhythmic?


Distractions & Chaos versus Priorities & Rhythm

Distraction and procrastination prevents us from living life fully!

Here are a few nuggets to reflect, learn, define, and act upon sound knowledge to live a meaningful life. A great book to read that focuses on living a future bigger than our past is The Rhythm of Life by Matthew Kelly.


1) Turn off the noise and take time to reflect on your life. Do you know what is missing in your life?

2) Take time to build relationships, time to be a friend. How strong are your community connections?

3) Live by your priorities not your obligations. Do your time and money expenditures reflect your priorities?

4) Do the right things at the right time. How well do you know your own biology, your biorhythm? How fine turned is your rhythm of life?

5) Don’t get caught up in the gadget trap. Are you leveraging technology or is technology leveraging you?

6) Rediscover the art of play. Are you getting the most out of life or is life getting the best out of you?

7) We can never hit a target we don’t have. How well defined are your life’s goals?

Be blessed and be a blessing to others
Carlos Fontana, President of Phalanx
Co-author of the book Follow to Lead (The 7 Principles to Being a Great Follower)
Author of the book PRICELESS (Sixty-Six Simple Stories of Reflection, Love, and Legacy)

Sunday, October 7, 2012

Can You Imagine?


DEVELOPING IMAGINATION

Imagination is more important than knowledge – Albert Einstein


How good is it having all the knowledge in the world if it is not directed towards improving our lives? It takes imagination to apply the right and readily available knowledge on our finger tips and neuron bits. Imagination is a quality of the mind. The good thing about imagination is that we can learn to develop and grow it. Here are a few questions to get your imagination jump started. Be patient with yourself as it takes time to master one of the key traits of successful entrepreneurs, IMAGINATION.

1) Can you imagine living the life you always wanted?

2) Can you imagine waking up by your body clock instead of your alarm clock?

3) Can you imagine making a living helping others to live the life they always wanted?

4) Can you imagine living the life you always wanted by achieving the most audacious goals?

5) Can you imagine not having to worry about your life because you helped so many get rid of their life worries?

6) Can you imagine fully living your biggest, wildest dream because you achieved your biggest goal?

7) Can you imagine having the time to master your God-given skills and abilities so you can live a meaningful life?

The answer to all these questions is YES YOU CAN. There is no limit to our imagination!

Be blessed and be a blessing to others
Carlos Fontana, President of Phalanx
Co-author of the book Follow to Lead (The 7 Principles to Being a Great Follower)
Author of the book PRICELESS (Sixty-Six Simple Stories of Reflection, Love, and Legacy)

Saturday, October 6, 2012

Take the IM out of IMpossible


Let’s Take the IM out of IMpossible

A few years ago I read the book, IN A PIT WITH A LION ON A SNOWY DAY, and wrote on this blog a month ago about The Circle Maker. Here are 7 more nuggets about being a Lion Chaser.

1) Let’s position ourselves a the right place at the right time even if the right place and time seem to be the wrong place and time at first. We have not really lived until we have looked foolish in the world’s eyes.

2) Let’s look for opportunities hidden in our problems and obstacles. We can only be our bests by taking risks. We will not regret the mistakes we made; we will regret the opportunities we missed.

3) Let’s remove the IM out of IMpossible. Amazing miracles come after we learn to thrive in the toughest circumstances and the impossible odds.

4) Let’s learn to live with the big view of where we are going. The more we grow the smaller our problems become.

5) Let’s muster the moral courage to face all fears square in the face. What we don’t know is what is stopping us from becoming what we are supposed to be.

6) Let’s learn to reframe and change our perspectives about pain, obstacles, failures, and all the difficult circumstances that come our way. No pain, no learning and no gain. No pain, no lion chasing stories to tell.

7) Let’s learn to compound our blessings. Let’s embrace change and learn to live with uncertainty if we want to live with certainty in eternity. Small and continuous positive changes in the right direction result in major consequences over time.

Be blessed and be a blessing to others
Carlos Fontana, President of Phalanx
Co-author of the book Follow to Lead (The 7 Principles to Being a Great Follower)
Author of the book PRICELESS (Sixty-Six Simple Stories of Reflection, Love, and Legacy)

Friday, October 5, 2012

Why we talk so much and do so little about it!


What is happening inside Corporations?

What happened to Americas great corporations?

Economists now recognize that there was a corporate age that lasted for about 25 years, and it existed between the industrial and the information ages. Economic ages just don’t die completely; they become smaller and less relevant to the overall economy. The agrarian age for example, in less than 100 years went from involving 30% percent of the population to about 2% today. So what happened to the corporate age? Why some corporations still thrive and many others falter? The one word answer is LEADERSHIP. Great companies are led by great leaders with the primary focus on developing new and better leaders. Bad leaders are incapable of developing good leaders. Another factor at play is the emerging new economic age, the entrepreneurial community age. Yes, the corporate renegades are starting their own businesses. They are getting together in teams and forming communities so they can leverage their strengths while improving their weaknesses. They are working hard and they are having a time of their lives. Remember the days when the secure thing was to work for a big corporation, with great benefits and job security? How is it working lately? How many workforce reductions (re-engineering, down-sizing, right-sizing, and lean-sizing, etc.) have you survived so far? The truth is that the most insecure thing today is to work for a big corporation. Security is no longer where it used to be. Security today is in the speed of our learning while building our own enterprises. So what happened? Many bad leaders, hidden behind or inside their corporate cultures, are responsible for the decay of good companies. In a flat world, a company lifespan is getting shorter and shorter. Remember Circuit City?  Great leaders build the right culture and the culture builds the great corporations, the great businesses. Bad leaders, with unproductive boards, destroy corporations; they self-destruct. There is a way out. Get educated. Don’t sit and rot inside your cubicle. Watch out as you may be working for a corporation on its way to the cemetery? Companies are not developing enough leaders. How come? Simple, most companies do not have an internal proven system to develop future leaders. They focus too much on hard skills and too little on soft, human skills.
The 7 daily nuggets focus is on the positive. Well, not today. Today I decided to focus on the bad and the ugly. Will you excuse me for a day? If so, please continue for the signs if it is time to develop yourself into a leader.

1) Bad leaders are in deep denial. a) It won’t happen to us; we have been around for over 50 or 100 years. b) Our products are staples now, people need them. c) This new change or program will do it for us. Isolation and denial are big leadership problems. Another problem is the lack of character. Bad leaders don’t do what they say they are going to do. Integrity is not enough. Remember Enron? True leaders must have the courage to face the brutal reality. If the dog and pony shows for bosses and for Wall Street is still happening then you are definitely working for a potential dinosaur. False leaders cannot deal with the truth. They complain about managing over BS yet still love it.

2) Bad leaders are arrogant. We are the best in the industry! We are killing the competition! Then when the numbers are fall short of expectations, let’s find a culprit to place blame, and of course do the firing. If the company stock price is stagnant for over a decade, you are working for a future dinosaur no matter what the leaders say.

3) Bad leaders are complacent and incompetent. Incompetent leaders cannot grow the business so they keep on acquiring other companies. Future corporate dinosaurs have a tendency to fire the smart employees and retain the compliant, the poor talented ones. How well the company integrates new employees, especially those with industry experience coming from a different company culture?

4) Bad leaders suffer from program-itis.  We will fire 10% or 20% of the workers and the others will get the program. False leaders are dysfunctional as they keep on bringing one grandiose program after another since the last one failed to produce the results it was intended to. How many times have you moved offices? How many bosses have you had? Have you had any bad bosses? Is your current one a bad one? There is heavy focus on compliance. People responsible for implementing the decisions are not part of making the decisions. Every failed program is another nail in the coffin. Lessons are repeated until lessons are learned. Don’t be blind, look at what the scoreboard says?

5) Bad leaders have double standards. Compare the corporate values with the real values. The leaders just keep on saying one thing doing another or just being the super nice all the time, denying the facts... Can you imagine the money wasted by corporations in implementing programs just because it sounded good to Wall Street? A classic case is with regard to employee diversity. Loyalty is a two way street. A company cannot expect to have loyal employees if it keeps handing out pink slips. No wonder there is little innovation. Threatened employees don’t innovate very well or do they?

6) Bad leaders breathe inconsistencies. Us versus them mentality sets in and it becomes part of the company culture. Employees point to the leadership of the company and the leadership of the company points to the employees. Guess who wins the Blame Game?

7) Bad leaders no longer hear the truth. People tell them what they think the leaders want to hear. While all this is going on, the rumor mill and the gossip run rampant. The toxic culture is out of control. Fear of losing the job is common. Imagine the wasted energy worrying about things that are not in one’s control? If you hear “I have only 8 or 5 or 2 more years to go” often around the water cooler, you could be talking with a sacred cow or bull on the way out.

Be blessed and be a blessing to others
Carlos Fontana, President of Phalanx
Co-author of the book Follow to Lead (The 7 Principles to Being a Great Follower)
Author of the book PRICELESS (Sixty-Six Simple Stories of Reflection, Love, and Legacy)