Sunday, July 7, 2013

Self-questioning Power

When Questions Greater Than Answers

The purpose of the 7 Daily Nuggets is to teach us what we need to know to live a prosperous life; the things that we may not have learned or are not currently learning in church, school, home or at work. Let’s apply what we learn here and share these nuggets with others. We make a living by what we get; we make a life by what we give. Be a giver in a world of takers.

Are your questions greater than your answers? They should always be!

The ability to ask great questions is more important than having the right answers.

Higher quality thinking is required to ask big questions.

Here are 7 questions to get you thinking big, deep, and long:

1.      What were the turning points in your life?

2.      What were your greatest victories in life?

3.      What were your greatest defeats and what lessons did you learn from them?

4.      What was the greatest complement that you have received?

5.      Who are your biggest encouragers and role models and why?

6.      What do you believe in and why you believe in what you believe?

7.      What dreams are becoming realities for you in the next five years?

Be brutally honest about your past.

Never underestimate yourself about your future possibilities.

Be faithful, enthusiastic, and positive about your future.


Be blessed and be a blessing to others
Carlos Fontana, President of Phalanx
Co-author of the book Follow to Lead (The 7 Principles to Being a Great Follower)

Author of the book PRICELESS (Sixty-Six Simple Stories of Reflection, Love, and Legacy)

Saturday, July 6, 2013

Communication 101

Are you a good communicator?

The purpose of the 7 Daily Nuggets is to teach us what we need to know to live a prosperous life; the things that we may not have learned or are not currently learning in church, school, home or at work. Let’s apply what we learn here and share these nuggets with others. We make a living by what we get; we make a life by what we give. Be a giver in a world of takers.

I have seen thousands of presentations, some incredibly great, some very good, and some outright very boring. I have also done a good share of presentations throughout my 30+ years of being a professional. This is an area that we can never know enough. There is so much involved in communication. I absolutely love watching a master communicator in action.

Communication is an art and a science. It is about using the heart and the brain to deliver content in a pleasing way to an audience.

The only way to master this vitally important skill is to practice it over and over again. All great leaders are great communicators who have spent at least 10,000 hours practicing this vital skill. Remember that we have to start, we have to be bad first, in order to master the vital skill of communication.

What does it take to become a great communicator?

What is happening when great communication is taking place?

Here are a few thoughts to get you going:

1.      Listening. When we listen we learn, then we can lead. Prepare others to receive the message. The opening, setting the stage, is important.

2.      Expression and humor. Master the content, vary the tone, and have fun in communicating. What will be remembered on the way home?

3.      Illustration. Use relevant stories. Teach through stories. Make it memorable.

4.      Relatability. Care and touch their hearts. Are they seeing themselves in your stories?

5.      Body language. Bring the content to life. Walking trumps standing still. Be unpredictable.

6.      Enthusiasm and passion. Show some love and bring the content to life. Speak from the heart. Monotone is very boring.

7.      Feedback. Communication is two way. Is it being received? Is it engaging? Are they with you or somewhere else? What will be remembered and applied? Will the closing do justice to your performance?

Be blessed and be a blessing to others
Carlos Fontana, President of Phalanx
Co-author of the book Follow to Lead (The 7 Principles to Being a Great Follower)

Author of the book PRICELESS (Sixty-Six Simple Stories of Reflection, Love, and Legacy)

Friday, July 5, 2013

The Game of Life

Are you winning the game of life?

The purpose of the 7 Daily Nuggets is to teach us what we need to know to live a prosperous life; the things that we may not have learned or are not currently learning in church, school, home or at work. Let’s apply what we learn here and share these nuggets with others. We make a living by what we get; we make a life by what we give. Be a giver in a world of takers.

Are you living the life you always wanted or is life living you?

Are you playing the game or are you just being a bystander watching and living life through the victories of others instead of your own victories?

Here are the 7 daily nuggets on how to win in the game of life:

1.      Play the cards you were dealt with. Know who you are. Rise above your circumstances. It is in your struggles that you will find your greatness.

2.      It’s all about relationships. Master the art and science of friendship. Love spells t*i*m*e.

3.      Discover and develop your gifts, then give them away. The best gift you can give is the gift of yourself, your undivided help to those in need.

4.      Think and act as an entrepreneur and leader. Live the values of initiative, imagination, ingenuity, innovation, tenacity, and mastery.

5.      Keep score in the game of life. Face the scoreboard so you can change and grow.
  
6.      Master the fundamentals of life. Money, time, relationships, physical, mental, spiritual health.

7.      Be generous and give back. Leave the places you go better than you found them. The greatest measure of wealth is not money; it is the quality of our relationships. Money is a tool that can help to build relationships.

Be blessed and be a blessing to others
Carlos Fontana, President of Phalanx
Co-author of the book Follow to Lead (The 7 Principles to Being a Great Follower)

Author of the book PRICELESS (Sixty-Six Simple Stories of Reflection, Love, and Legacy)

Thursday, July 4, 2013

How independent and free are we?

Independence Day Reflection

The purpose of the 7 Daily Nuggets is to teach us what we need to know to live a prosperous life; the things that we may not have learned or are not currently learning in church, school, home or at work. Let’s apply what we learn here and share these nuggets with others. We make a living by what we get; we make a life by what we give. Be a giver in a world of takers.

How independent and free are we?

Independence is the quality or state of being independent.

Here is something I just read in themainwire.com that troubled me and I hope it troubles you too. I quickly got over my troubled thinking as I realized that it is in our troubles that we find our opportunities. 
The opportunity is education is massive.

 According to the Heritage Foundation’s 2012 Index of Dependence on Government, 63.7 million Americans, or about one in five, is receiving direct government support from Social Security, welfare, or Pell Grants—and that is at its highest level ever.

These individuals are very likely to be receiving additional benefits from other government programs such as Medicare or Medicaid, food stamps, etc., and the total share of Americans receiving benefits is likely to be even higher when considering benefits available on everything from housing to school lunches. The Wall Street Journal found that in 2011, 49 percent of Americans lived in a household where at least one member of the family received a government benefit.

The nation can’t afford to continue increasing spending on these programs, as President Obama has proposed in each of his budgets. Federal spending is exploding—and it is already an eye-popping reality that 70.5 percent of federal spending goes to dependency-creating programs. We are spending more on dependency-creating programs while an ever-shrinking number of taxpayers are paying for them.

Most importantly, it’s bad for Americans. The American Dream is about life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness, through independence—not dependence on government. Government dependency erodes human dignity and civil society.

These programs were originally designed to help those who fall on hard times and need a safety net. Public policy should head back in that direction. The welfare reform of 1996 helped lift recipients out of poverty and back into jobs by requiring, among other things, that they work. President Obama has undone that requirement. And there are dozens more anti-poverty programs that should be revamped to help those who are able toward self-sufficiency.

At the same time, we must address the looming entitlements crisis: 78 million baby boomers are heading into retirement, and many of them will be entirely dependent on Social Security and Medicare for their income and health care. This dependency is a huge driver of future budget deficits.
We cannot continue on a course of unlimited government spending when fewer and fewer taxpayers are paying for that spending. That is the financial fact. But we also cannot sustain the American Dream on this course—and that is a fact that is intensely personal for every American.

Poverty in American has become a big industry and it is exploited by many, including the chief propagator, our own government.

If we want to end poverty, let’s make education our chief industry.

Entitlement is the worst form of slavery!

You may call it coincidence; I call it providence, the story of a great man from a town called Independence in the State of Missouri. Here is an example of someone who self-educated himself and went a long way from his hometown.
Harry Truman, 33rd President of the United States of America had a lifelong love of reading. Mama Truman taught Harry to read before he started school. She gave ten-year-old Harry a four volume set of essays entitled, Great Men and Famous Women, which Harry read with great enthusiasm.
Although a lack of money kept Mr. Truman from going to college, he continued to read and educate himself. Margaret remembered her father always having a book in his hand when he sat down for a quiet moment. Even in Mr. Truman's last years, he alternated between several books. You probably have heard the tale of Mr. Truman having read all books from the library of Independence, Missouri, the town where he was born and lived. He was a good president during the time when the world was in crisis. A self-educated farm boy that reached the Presidency is attributed for the following two quotes:
"I'm going to fight hard. I'm going to give them hell." “The buck stops here.”

How can we find ourselves and rise again instead of going down in history as another failed society?

Here are things we can all do something about:

1.      Fight for your freedom and spread freedom. Be a freedom fighter instead of security seeker. Do we want our kids and grandkids inherit a lot less freedoms than we did?

2.      Spread entrepreneurship. Think and act as an entrepreneur and leader, not just as a passive employee waiting for the retirement day. The industrial age where safe and secure jobs were abundant is long gone.

3.      Learn and live the entrepreneurial values.  The values of initiative, imagination, ingenuity, innovation, tenacity, and self-mastery. It is time to think long term and delay gratification so we can leverage the power of compounding.

4.      Be a voracious reader of the great books. Start by reading the books A Thomas Jefferson Education, FreedomShift, 1913, and LeaderShift. Then start reading history, the classics, and so on. Fall in love with reading. Imagine if Americans would just substitute just 30 minutes of their four hours of TV watching with reading every day?
  
5.      Take full responsibility for your life, your future, and your family. Master the fundamentals of life. Money, time, relationships, physical, mental, spiritual health. Live this two letter word motto - “If it is up to be it is up to me.”

6.      Tap into self-education and leverage its power.  A self-directed education is the only true education. We are all in the education business. Think of it like the oxygen mask; put yours first then you can help those around you.

7.      Be a rascal. Chase your dreams with gusto. I believe the best days for America are ahead of us if only 1% of us chased independence and freedom instead of dependence and perceived security. 

Wake up America!


Be blessed and be a blessing to others
Carlos Fontana, President of Phalanx
Co-author of the book Follow to Lead (The 7 Principles to Being a Great Follower)

Author of the book PRICELESS (Sixty-Six Simple Stories of Reflection, Love, and Legacy)

Wednesday, July 3, 2013

Today’s Leader

Today’s Leader

The purpose of the 7 Daily Nuggets is to teach us what we need to know to live a prosperous life; the things that we may not have learned or are not currently learning in church, school, home or at work. Let’s apply what we learn here and share these nuggets with others. We make a living by what we get; we make a life by what we give. Be a giver in a world of takers.

Are you prepared to lead? What is leadership anyway? There are many definitions for leadership. 

The best definition I have found is that leadership is character in motion. 

Character is integrity plus courage. Integrity is the adherence to a moral set of values or simply doing what is right. Courage is having the heart and the mind together to venture and persist in the face of fear, danger, and hardships. No wonder there are so few leaders today! Leadership is deeply needed in our current world.

Leadership is demonstrated. 


Sooner or later all of us are called to lead.

Will you be prepared to lead when your time comes?

Prepare and your chance will come.

Do you want to be a leader in today’s chaotic world? Here is what it takes:

1.      Have a clear vision. See the future. Communicate your vision with clear and compelling pictures.

2.      Operate the best version of yourself. Keep on reinventing yourself and releasing your best version. Master of craft.

3.      Develop other leaders. Be a talent scout and invest in the right people. Hunger trumps intellect every time.

4.      Value relationships and results over busyness and output. Focus on adding value to people’s lives.

5.      Lead by example and by duty. You owe it to your loyal followers. Setting the example is important. Feeling a duty to lead is leadership at a higher level. Flip that organization pyramid and be at the bottom, taking the shots, honoring and serving those you lead.

6.      Chase excellence and be wise. Have the humility and hunger to learn from your experiences and the experiences of others. Value mentoring to become a great coach.

7.      Master the art of communication. Be visible, be inspiring, be engaging, be emotional, and above all be passionate about your vision and your cause.

Be a leader and leave a legacy!

Be blessed and be a blessing to others
Carlos Fontana, President of Phalanx
Co-author of the book Follow to Lead (The 7 Principles to Being a Great Follower)

Author of the book PRICELESS (Sixty-Six Simple Stories of Reflection, Love, and Legacy)

Tuesday, July 2, 2013

Reading Power

Why Read?

The purpose of the 7 Daily Nuggets is to teach us what we need to know to live a prosperous life; the things that we may not have learned at church, school, home or at work. Let’s apply what we learn here and share these nuggets with others. We make a living by what we get; we make a life by what we give. Be a giver in a world of takers.

Reading the right books is the most powerful habit one can have.

Great readers have a higher standard of living.

Readership in America is at an all-time low. Any wonder why our society's standard of living is going down. We are losing the edge we once used to have!

Why reading is a PRICELESS habit?

1.      Improve your language and communication skills. Communication is a learned skill. Reading will enhance your ability to effectively communicate.

2.      Become a better writer. All great writers are great readers. Imagine reading over one million words per year by just reading 15 minutes per day. You can tap into those words to craft sentences and create your own style of writing.

3.      Expand your imagination. There is magic in reading the right books. Can you imagine tapping into the minds of great writers? Learn how great minds think.

4.      Introduce you to new and better ideas. Books are full of proven ideas yet new to you. Take notes as ideas will come to you as you write.

5.      Takes you to people and places you have not been before. Great books introduce you to places, people, and stories that take your breath away.

6.      Become a great conversationalist. Acquire stories, the vocabulary, and become a story teller.
  
7.      Have more enjoyment and fun in life. Self-education is full of fun. Self-discovery is a powerful form of enjoyment.

If you are not reading at least two great books a month you are missing the path to living a great life.

Anyone can develop the habit of reading. Start today! All it takes is 15 minutes per day, every day, for 30 days. It does not matter is you are a slow reader. To become great readers we all have to read, read, and read. Give it a shot and you will be amazed at the things you will learn and the great person you will become. Get a great book and get started today! Start developing the PRICELESS habit now!

Be blessed and be a blessing to others
Carlos Fontana, President of Phalanx
Co-author of the book Follow to Lead (The 7 Principles to Being a Great Follower)

Author of the book PRICELESS (Sixty-Six Simple Stories of Reflection, Love, and Legacy)

Monday, July 1, 2013

Know Yourself First

Do you know who you are?

The purpose of the 7 Daily Nuggets is to teach us what we need to know to live a prosperous life; the things that we may not have learned at church, school, home or at work. Let’s apply what we learn here and share these nuggets with others. We make a living by what we get; we make a life by what we give. Be a giver in a world of takers.

He or she who conquers self-first can conquer great things!

Know your strengths and weaknesses; work on both.

Develop great habits and become their slave.

Here are the 7 daily nuggets about discovering who you are, who you were created to be:
1.      Read. Great books introduce you to you. Great books help you to discover who you are.

2.      Reflect. An unexamined life is a wasted life. The wise are the ones who take time to reflect on their life experiences. Leverage your strengths and minimize your weaknesses. 

3.      Meditate. Connect with your inner being, your core. Meditation helps to connect with mind with your heart, your spirit and your soul. Know where your strength comes from.

4.      Pray. Tap on a higher power through daily prayer. Prayer allows you hear the music coming from your soul. Prayer gives us the strength to withstand the storms of life.

5.      Listen and associate. Listen to the wisdom of others. Listen to the sounds of nature. Associate with people you admire and trust. Choose the right role models to emulate.

6.      Write. Condense your thinking into words. The right words carry enormous power with them. Writing is the art of creating music with words to create feelings and emotions for others.

7.      Give. Gratitude and generosity are the privilege of the great. We are all here to live, to love, and to learn. Love is the greatest expression of truly being alive.

We become what we read, reflect, mediate, pray, listen, associate, write, and give.

Be blessed and be a blessing to others
Carlos Fontana, President of Phalanx
Co-author of the book Follow to Lead (The 7 Principles to Being a Great Follower)

Author of the book PRICELESS (Sixty-Six Simple Stories of Reflection, Love, and Legacy)